A Question for the Pro-Choice Crowd?

I completely agree that abortion is always wrong- and particularly wrong when it has to do with gender preference. What if that couple did not know that baby was a girl until birth- and then decided to abandon her somewhere- would they be charged with abandonment and murder if she died? ABSOLUTELY!! However in the womb it is called choice. For those who think that a woman can do whatever they want to there own body- 2 heart beats constitute 2 lives.